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Solutions by Naran S Balakumar are posted here under various topics. Originally, they were answered in www.reachnaran.comand www.naranonline.wordpress.com. Currently, he answers only in www.reachnaran.com.

Disclaimer

Reiki is a self-healing, meditative and a yogic practice of Japan like our Ashtanga Yoga, Pranayama, and Mudras.

NARAN does not claim to treat any physical disease. Nor his advice is a replacement for any Medical treatment. Doctor’s advice and medication is to be strictly followed.

Any alternate healing, namely Reiki, Bach flowers, Switch Words, Mantras, and Mudras, enhances one’s mental will power to cope with their life problems.

Naran does not do Reiki healing; he only teaches....

By following his suggestions or by accepting the flower remedies, you are waiving of all your rights to bind him or claim any compensation under any circumstances.

Saturday 14 February 2015

Confused about the forgiving exercise

GA

I’m a bit confused about the concept of forgiving exercise. Does it decrease the intensity of pain or what its real purpose is?

Suppose, I do forgiving somebody who is torturing me, and there is possibility that he will change his ways. But I think, if he stops, somebody other will appear.

Because real cause of my sufferings is my own misdeeds and the person is just a medium!! Until I remove the ’cause’ of my suffering, I will have to suffer through different ‘mediums’.

With forgiving ex, I can (at subconscious level) request to someone for releasing me, but will my bad karmas, and their results will release me?

I think if I apologize before lord, only then, I can get some actual relief because he gave me this human form and I misused it by doing wrong deeds and I’m guilty of misusing the precious gift of lord.

And how can I release a past life connection, without settling karmic accounts, just by doing forgiving exercise?

I'm a firm believer of theory of karma so I’m asking this question. Pls clear my confusion.

Naran

Forgiving the one who is troubling us is a state of the soul. It is divine.

The real meaning of forgiving is “I stop my anger. You also stop your anger.”

When you think of stopping your anger first, it justifies the quantum theory that effect precedes the cause.

Total forgiving attitude cleanses off everything. If someone appears and troubles you, do it again. That is all.

Instead of thinking it is my karma, be above it.

Get forgiveness from divine

BEME

What should I chant to get forgiveness from divine for a sin [I don't know whether it's sin but definitely wrong] done by me during my growing age, say whatever in anger or as anything,

I am sorry for that. But I don't want to talk to the concerned person because the person has given me lots of pain and trouble, and created many obstacles in my path.

Well I don’t know person knows anything because person himself keeps doing the same, like gossiping for example.

All I want is to forgive person, myself, that event, words, get forgiveness and to move on. I should see change (in my life) as I cannot change what is said and done, while god has that power.

Naran

Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME.LOVE THANKS DIVINE”.

Write “BOW CONCEDE CLEAR REVERSE RESTORE DIVINE”

Thursday 12 February 2015

Realize their mistakes and return my money

Sairam

I want my father and brothers to realize their mistakes and return my money and property back.

But, more important is my heart is wishing really that my dad call me as well as my kids back to stay with him. This is most important than the money.

Naran

If you want your father to call you back then do the forgiving exercise within your mind.

Chant “BOW CONCEDE CLEAR BE TINY TOGETHER DIVINE” daily 1000 times.

Write “THIRUNEELAKANTAM” daily in a notebook for 51 times.

Left leg bone fracture and infection

Sam Alexander

I am suffering from left leg femur bone fracture and infection for one year. I undergone six surgery and almost taken all antibiotics.

I don't know what else to do…… please help me to walk again …..

Naran

Forgive and thank all your parents, friends and teachers, who have helped you so far in your life.

Chant “OPEN SAVE DIVINE”.

Huge amount of money is struck with a lady

Tamilarasi

My huge amount of money is struck with one Brahmin lady for the past five months. She is asking me to come today, tomorrow, next week like to get back my money.

Naran

Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD, CHANGE DIVINE ORDER GIVE COUNT NOW”

Tamilarasi

I chanted so my times. But still she has asked my husband to come today, next week and like this.
Now she says “Cheque has come. I will call you in two days”. But she will give little bit only. I want my full amount.

Naran

In addition, write in a notebook, “I THANK…. (Mention her name) FOR GIVING NOW DONE”.

While talking to her or going there, forgive and thank her mentally. Don’t blame her.

Have successful relationships

Affirm, “I enjoy having successful relationships”.

Right from your birth, think about your relatives and friends you had. Thank them for being in your life.

Affirm, “Divine love manifest in all my relationships”

Forgive, thank and love all your relationships.

Forgiving is a must

Naran

When we are angry about somebody, our solar plexus chakra is boiling. You will not be able to accept any healing then.

If we tell them to forgive – as forgiving is a divine quality, it is impossible for them to accept then.

Forgiveness and unconditional love are qualities of divine, while fear and anger are human’s.

Friend is very angry

ATEWSH

I was angry with one of my friend. So out of anger, I texted some messages and because of this my friend is very angry.

I tried to call and send sorry texted messages but he is neither taking calls nor responding for my messages. What should I do now?

I know it was my fault. I could not control my anger. But how to reduce his anger so that he calms down and talks me.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Stopped talking to me

Jeevan

I am in love with someone from past 3 years. We had a great time. But all sudden, he stops talking to me. Please help me what should I do.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Tuesday 10 February 2015

Is very rude and arrogant

Sudha

My husband is very rude and arrogant. Though, he loves me very much, sometimes he ignores me a lot and is very rude to me. How can I change his rude behaviour and make him loving and caring?

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

People owing money are not returning

Jayshree

Already, I have few people who owe me money but are not returning and a court case is on against one of them.

What are the switch words for me to win the court case so that the person returns my money as nothing has worked peacefully.

Dad passed away in Oct 2013 and a few people owe dad too, along with interest.

Kindly suggest remedies to receive the entire money from them in the most peaceful and speedier manner.

Naran

Chant “CHICORY, GORSE, AGRIMONY, ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD” as many times as possible.

As long as you think that it is your money and it is your right to get the money from them, you will not get.

Thank them for giving the money.

Do the forgiving exercise. 

Ligament injury

Samir

I had got ligament injury in my right knee two years back. But since one year, my left knee also pains.

Naran

Thank your parents.

Do the forgiving exercise.

Tennis elbow problem

Lakshmi

My relative is having tennis elbow problem? Which mantra to be chanted? Where we can download your mantra from web?

Naran 

Ask her to do the forgiving exercise for those with whom she is angry or not talking.

Lost trust with my father

Apee

I trusted my father and sent him all my savings, today he denies everything. What can I do in such a situation?

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Three years before we got separated

Vijaya

 I want my husband back please give any mantra to get my husband back. It is three years before we got separated.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Download the Power Life Symbol 47 and do as instructed in the blog posting.

Right knee got hurt

M

My husband’s right knee got hurt. No serious injury. But pain is there. He takes some medicine.do some exercises as told by doctor.

But, still he is not fully recovered, though there is relief. Pain is not so much. And it mainly occurs in evening.

Naran

Ask him to thank his father.

If he thinks that in life, he was not able to do certain things because of father, ask him to do the forgiving exercise also.

Never forget to do forgiveness exercise

Sarada

Thanks for telling how much Forgiveness Exercise helps us Naran.

Forgiveness exercise has become a part of my life. From the time I started doing the exercise and feeling better even in a tough situation.

In a day I may forget to chant a Sloka but will never forget to do Forgiveness exercise concerning anything at that given moment.

I also listen to Forgiveness CD regularly.

Thank you very much Naran for all the advices you give to help us lead a better life.

To get Married forgive everybody in your life

VV Ravi


I am going through exactly what Naran has said.

My first marriage broke very horribly.

Second was only on paper which broke within just 1 week, though the whole process took 3 years to complete.

And third one now is on verge of breaking.

I am going through a really horrible stage in life. Many times, I have even wished that this life would end for me.

I am not a Reiki channel, how can I heal my past and try to correct my present?

Naran

Prepare a list of people you need to heal. Write their names in separate pieces of paper.

Take one paper, thinking about the person, chant “I am sorry. Please forgive me. Love thanks together divine” for at least three minutes.

Do it for all people in the list.

A student of mine did this exercise for all the people she knows. For about 300 of them, she took each paper and said the mantra for three times. Within three months her marriage got fixed.

The strategy behind this technique – for some reason we are holding anger, and grudges against each person we have met.

When it is released, good things started to happen. It could be marriage, a good job or money from unknown source.

Nayana

Please let me know what one has to do with written piece of paper after this exercise like need to throw / burnt / put in water.

Naran

Burn it.

The concerned person did the exercise for a month, every single day. So do it for a month and then burn it.

Forgiving for others sake

Nayana

I have two queries related to Forgiving Exercise.

I have too many people to forgive in my life, so please guide me how to forgive them with once for all.

I see my husband is having so much resentment in his life with so many people but he doesn't try to do any of the exercise to forgive & forget.

So is there anything I can do on behalf of him, as it’s affecting my life all the time.

Naran

You cannot do anything for somebody’s sake.

What is your predominant thought or emotion when you deal with him? Release that one by one. If one goes, another will come.

Take a list of all (people you want to forgive). Do the forgiving for all. Take one at a time. Chant 200 times for each.

Chant the forgiveness exercise

Jayanthi Balaji

Do you want me to chant the forgiveness mantra, I mean, “I forgive you…” and so on? Or do I just have to fill the name or action that upsets me?

Naran

“I Jayanthi forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.

Take a person with whom you are angry. Insert his or her name in the space given above. Chant the same for 200 Times a day.